Yuan Yijun (bbbush) wrote,
Yuan Yijun

zz:周国平 交往的质量(节)

周国平 交往的质量 http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_471d6f680100919c.html 人们常常误认为,那些热心于社交的人是一些慷慨之士。泰戈尔说得好,他们只是在挥霍,不是在奉献,而挥霍者往往缺乏真正的慷慨。
    那么,挥霍与慷慨的区别在哪里呢?我想是这样的:挥霍是把自己不珍惜的东西拿出来,慷慨是把自己珍惜的东西拿出来。社交场上的热心人正是这样,他们不觉得 自己的时间、精力和心情有什么价值,所以毫不在乎地把它们挥霍掉。相反,一个珍惜生命的人必定宁愿在孤独中从事创造,然后把最好的果实奉献给世界。

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